STOP
WAITING
TO BE CHOSEN.
START CHOOSING YOURSELF.
OddBird is a nest for the ones who live, love, and fuck differently - on purpose.
Break taboos
Fuck people-pleasing, fuck the “shoulds”, and fuck the scripted love stories. Live and love YOUR way.
Turn up your desire
Forget shame. Forget rules. Learn how to be your own aphrodisiac and turn yourself on - no partner needed.
Own your freedom
Build a life where intimacy doesn’t cost you your independence. You get to want more and still belong to yourself.
HEY,
I´M BLUE.
aka the Solo Sex Coach.
Certified sex coach, solo lifestyle guide and all times pleasure nerd. Guide for people who refuse to choose between autonomy and intimacy. OddBird exists because I got tired of watching smart, curious humans silence themselves in the name of love... myself included.
If you crave depth but don´t want to disappear inside a relationship...
If pleasure feels like a reward, a condition, and something you´ve got to earn...
If you´ve done the work but still feel like something is missing...
Or if you´re simply curious to explore sex and relationships outside traditional norms...
WELCOME
TO ODDBIRD.
This is where the REAL adventure starts.
READY TO
TAKE FLIGHT?
Let’s get serious about your pleasure, your freedom, and your amazing life. It´s time to say FUCK YES to yourself.
1:1 Coaching
Deep, transformative work with me, Valentine Blue, certified sex coach and solo lifestyle guide. This is the kind of work that changes how you relate to yourself and others... and it’s worth every delicious, juicy second.
choose your DEPTH:
The Spark
The Reclamation
DEVOTION: Mastery
Events &
Workshops
OddBird’s signature experiences designed to fly out of autopilot, awaken curiosity, and spark connection.
Social events: The Nest, our playground for meeting, mingling, and exploring beyond small talk.
Self Devotion & Holy Fuck experiences: Exquisite journeys of pleasure, play, and self-connection.
Immersive experiences & guest facilitations: Exclusive collaborations that dive deep.
OddBird
Community
Birds of a feather flock together - and transformations happens best when around like-minded people.
Join the OddBird newsletter and receive weekly inspiration, micro-practices, and exclusive access to new experiences.
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WE´RE TAUGHT THERE IS ONLY ONE RIGHT WAY TO LIVE, LOVE, AND BELONG.
Couple up, prioritize romance, follow society´s rules of what a successful life looks like or risk being "behind" like being unconventional is some kind of curse. But most people are far more unconventional than they’re allowed to admit. OddBird exists for the ones who are ready to reclaim different as the new normal.
PROOF, NOT PROMISES
Real words from clients and collaborators who´ve experienced the work from the inside.
It was incredibly transformative.
I feel like a new person and at the same time the whole being I've been all along. I feel so in touch with myself and who I am and I am ridiculously grateful.
Lau Coehlo, participant of
The Holy Fuck Experience
I had just gone through a very transformative year. I knew something needed attention, but I didn’t fully know what I needed yet. Each 1:1 session helped me better understand my priorities and what truly matters to me.
Óskar Thodarson, active member
of the OddBird community
The Reclamation were the three hours that transformed me from the inside out. I came in feeling a lack of confidence, self worth and inner fire. I came out empowered and more relaxed about the unexpected.
Joao Brito, enrolled in
The Reclamation
GRAB YOUR FREE CHALLENGE
The Turned the Fuck On 10-Day Challenge
No bullshit, no waiting for anyone to give you permission. 10 days of pure, delicious, untamed YOU. Reconnect with your body, your lust, and your unapologetic self.
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