HEY,
I´M BLUE.
Valentine Blue.
And yes, like my hair 😉
Certified sex coach, solo lifestyle guide and founder of OddBird. Think of me as the winged companion you didn't know you needed on this wild, worthy, and deeply personal path of self-intimacy.
My work is inspired by nearly a decade of expertise in sexual health and pleasure advocacy, working as a licensed social worker with people living on society´s margins. From shelters in France to brothels in Amsterdam, I stood alongside sex workers and drug consumers, fighting for their right to be seen, empowered, and accepted. Those years taught me that sexuality is never just about sex... it´s also about freedom, power and belonging.
HOW IT ALL STARTED...
The year 2023 brought me to question most of my life choices and take a different path than the one I was meant to walk on.
You know that kind of identity crisis that turns your whole life upside down? Yup, like most people after COVID, I went through that too.
I left my relationship, my city, my home and my comfortable career behind to backpack the world solo. Eight months on the road reshaped me completely: and led me to train as a certified sex coach & sexologist with the Sexual Health Alliance.
Today I proudly guide curious, open-minded solos who feel the pull to explore sex and relationships in ways that go beyond what they’ve been told. Together we turn self-intimacy into a compass for freedom, pleasure, and unapologetic, absolutely delicious living.
OddBird was born from my own need to create spaces that feel safe, expansive, and unapologetically bold. Places where individuals can explore, discover, empower themselves, and YES: fuck around and find out. It’s all about the self: not needing a partner to start living, feel whole or complete. Think of it as a playground where every part of you is welcome: the curious, the kinky, the tender, the deep... and even the uncertain. ESPECIALLY the uncertain.
FUN FACTS
FUN FACTS FUN FUN FACTS
FUN FACTS
FUN FACTS FUN FUN FACTS
I’ve worked in sexual health for over 10 years before becoming a sex coach in 2025. I stay in ongoing training (including NLP) while prioritizing lived experience over rigid theory.
I test everything I guide. If I can explore something on my own first, I will. Especially when it comes to intimacy, embodiment and pleasure practices. Curiosity is part of my integrity.
I am solo polyamorous, which means that I have intimate multiple relationships (romantic, sexual, intimate) while keeping an independent lifestyle.
I identify as female (she/her) & pansexual. I care less about labels and more about chemistry, safety and genuine connection.
I regularly explore practices that stretch the body and expand awareness: meditation, ecstatic dance, breathwork, tantra… and yes, also kink, BDSM, and the occasional exteme adventure.
I was raised in a French bakery and food is one of my love languages. You will most likely see me do a little "food dance" when I eat something delicious. I also drink an unreasonable amount of tea, it’s basically a personality trait.
I'd love to get to know you too!
Pop me a message on Instagram @oddbirdbyblue and let me know a fun fact about yourself!
